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David Pevsner is an LA-based actor and writer blazing a trail for senior citizen erotica, carving out a new niche for himself as an OnlyFans star. But it wasn’t always this way, as it took Pevsner a long time to be comfortable with his body.<\/p>\n

In his new autobiography “Damn Shame: A Memoir of Desire, Defiance and Show Tunes,” he writes about his journey to explore his sexuality. Including visiting the baths. Pevsner says<\/p>\n

\u201cI knew inside of me that I wasn\u2019t just a \u2018missionary position\u2019 kind of guy,\u201d David says. \u201cI knew I wasn\u2019t like, \u2018I want to fall in love with somebody and then be with them my whole life.\u2019 I knew there was something else, but if you thought that way, you were a slut. When I started going to bathhouses, I just kept thinking: \u2018If my parents knew what I do in a bathhouse\u2026\u2019 I\u2019m a good Jewish boy who\u2019s got this dirty streak inside.\u201d<\/p>\n

David is quick to point out that he doesn\u2019t use the word \u201cdirty\u201d in a negative way \u2013 he sees it as an empowering way to describe somebody \u201cwho\u2019s not afraid to explore pleasure and erotica\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe bathhouse helped me do just that,\u201d David explains. \u201cThey were the first essence of, I\u2019m doing something that I\u2019m told I shouldn\u2019t do \u2013 wandering the hallway, finding a guy, f**king him, leaving, and finding another one\u2026 It helped me explore the deeper, darker stuff that I don\u2019t know I would have explored had I not been able to go and do it anonymously.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Follow David Pevsner at his Instagram here<\/a> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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