{"id":2966,"date":"2014-09-08T19:55:01","date_gmt":"2014-09-08T23:55:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bathhouseblog.com\/?p=2966"},"modified":"2017-01-29T21:15:49","modified_gmt":"2017-01-30T02:15:49","slug":"gay-sauna-essay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bathhouseblog.com\/index.php\/2014\/09\/08\/gay-sauna-essay\/","title":{"rendered":"Visitor Writes Gay Sauna Essay"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><u><b><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Glamrou\" title=\"Amrou Al-Kadhi Twitter\" target=\"_blank\">Amrou Al-Kadhi<\/a><\/u><\/b> is truly a jack of all trades. Actor, writer, drag performer and stand-up comedian are just some of the hats this renascence man wears.<\/p>\n<p>He is also a writer, being a senior editor to <u><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.theinklingmag.com\" title=\"The Inkling\" target=\"_blank\">The Inkling<\/a><\/u><\/b>. This is a magazine celebrating writing in the essay form. This past February he wrote a piece for the Inkling, a gay sauna essay.<\/p>\n<p>He writes <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;I impulsively walked into a gay sauna. It\u2019s something which had always caught my curiosity, and there was one in the flesh, right there in front of me. I thought my experience at the sauna would be productively meaningless \u2013 just excessive desire for desire\u2019s sake, with no emotional logic to what I was doing. And how wrong I was. I have never been so turned off and un-aroused in the entirety of my human existence. I couldn\u2019t have wanted to have sex any less, actually. I left completely untouched and totally unsatisfied. What\u2019s so odd about a sauna is that everyone is already there, naked, ready to have sex. You don\u2019t need to work for it. No flirting is necessary \u2013 there\u2019s not even any talking: nothing.  All signifiers of desire are dispensed with for a very literal, non suggestive-experience.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Interested to read more? Go to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theinklingmag.com\/brains-bowels\/uncloaking-desire-experiencing-the-gay-sauna\/\" target=\"_blank\"><b><u>Uncloaking Desire: Experiencing the Gay Sauna<\/b><\/u><\/a>. This is a terrific gay sauna essay<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Amrou Al-Kadhi is truly a jack of all trades. 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